Hi, I'm Maki. Somehow I've gotten to the point that I've done enough stuff in this community that I need a website now to catalogue stuff.
Sugarqueer
Old vers.
A blankqueer term that is explicitly anti-harassment. If you engage in any form of harassment, this term is not for you. This includes things outside of suibaits and death threats; any form of cyberbullying is harassment. This term is accepting of everyone's differences and all identities made or practised in good faith, including transids, paraphilias, consang, religions, etc. This term can be used as an alternative to radqueer or in conjunction with it.
Emoji code: 🍬🌈 / 🍬💖
Coined on September 12th, 2023.
Coined as an alternative to heartqueer after Lamb became anti-radqueer and said heartqueer was now anti-rq. I don't actually identify with this label though lol.
New vers.
A blankqueer term meant to be used as an alternative to or in conjunction with radqueer that is explicitly and completely anti-harassment. This term is accepting of everyone's differences and marginalized identities, including transIDs, paraphilias, consang, belief systems, relationship dynamics, etc. etc., and as such, is radqueer-leaning.
This term is 100% anti-harassment. This goes beyond just suicide baits and death threats. Callout culture, cancel culture, cyberbullying, putting private messages on display to further drama, starting shit for the sake of starting shit, being a dick to people you haven't interacted with for no good reason, spreading rumors, belittling people over petty disagreements, block evading - these are the kind of things that sugarqueer is against (yes, even if you think the other party really really deserves it).
This term has no inherent contact stance, but its not for people with radical views on contact who exclude or hate on those with differing contact stances. Other than that, there aren't any inherent views. Its meant to be open to whoever wishes to use it, no matter your personal opinions. As long as you're a block-and-move-on kind of person, it probably fits you.
Emoji code: 🍬🌈 / 🍬💖 / 🍬🍓
Re-coined in response to how the community's was acting (but when are people not just spreading their shitty drama). Though I still don't really ID with the term.